Summer is here, and love is in the air—though increasingly not, as Antonia Mufarech writes, on the apps. As the dating sites struggle, people are going back to the classics (IRL interactions) or starting new traditions (love on LinkedIn?). Plus: How Birkenstock became a luxury brand. If this email was forwarded to you, click here to sign up.
More and more, it seems, people in the dating market are looking at the apps on their phones and swiping left on the whole enterprise. Bumble Inc. and Match Group Inc., which dominate the online dating realm, have together lost more than $53 billion in market value since Bumble’s initial public offering in 2021. Bumble’s sales growth is expected to slow to 9% this year, down from a peak of 31% in 2021. The number of people paying to use Match’s apps, such as Hinge and Tinder, declined 6% to 14.9 million from the same quarter a year earlier.
FAQs
"Don't be afraid to [show off] your quirks, whether it's a weird habit or a secret hobby." Avoid one-word answers. Ultimately, one-word Hinge-prompt answers either show that you're too lazy to put effort into your dating-app profile or that there isn't much to say about you.
What to answer when someone asks what are you looking for? ›
You can say something like, 'I am open to connecting with people and seeing what develops. ' Another way to say this is, 'I am enjoying connecting and getting to know people, and I am open to something serious if it develops. ' This allows you to be honest about you knowing what you want and what you're looking for.
How do you beat the dating app algorithm? ›
What follows are five tips for mastering dating apps by beating the algorithms at their own game.
- Get your game face on. ...
- Don't swipe right on everyone. ...
- Swipe consistently. ...
- Get on the app more. ...
- If all else fails, start fresh.
What is a good opening line on a dating app? ›
Suggested lines: “This app says we're 93 per cent compatible. I'd like to test that out in real life”; “I love that picture of you on the beach; I wish I were there”; “I woke up thinking today was just another boring Monday, and then I saw your photo on my app.”
How to respond when someone asks you what you re looking for on a dating app? ›
Just be honest and direct: a date, a partner, a friend, some casual fun. If you worry about your words, just simply put it in your bio, then people won't ask. Successfully navigating the murky waters of the dating app can definitely feel like a struggle.
How to answer what are you looking for in Bumble? ›
Answer honestly and sincerely.
Try to come up with qualities you really value in a partner, then tell your date about them. If you two don't match up, it's better to know now than figure it out later. “I'm looking for someone with similar hobbies and interests.”
What to reply when someone ask what you look like? ›
Give them a description.
A short explanation will probably be enough for most people, but sometimes you may want to give some extra information. This might be when you know someone a bit better and are happy to tell them more. It's up to you though, you only need to say more when you feel like it.
How do you answer how much are you looking for? ›
Here are examples of what you could say:
- “I'm looking for something in the $85,000 to $100,000 range, but this could change based on what I learn about the role."
- “I believe an annual salary between $70,000 and $80,000 reflects my skills and experience level. However, I'm flexible and open to hearing your budget.”
How do you reply to a dating app? ›
Dating coach Benjamin Daly thinks of it as a three-step process: Start with a greeting like, “Hey, (name),” which will make it feel more personal. Then “make an observation about something in their profile: I noticed…, I saw…, I didn't have you down as…” Finally, “end with a question about your observation.”
What's a good bio for a dating app? ›
In general, avoid negativity. Put information in your Tinder bio about what you like to do—your job (just don't use the words “grind” or “hustle” ever), your hobbies, whatever—rather than what you hate. Same for Hinge prompts: don't use them to complain about things. It doesn't make you seem interesting.
If you're looking for a relationship, you can say “seeking a partner to do ___ with” or simply say “seeking a friend to have coffee with” if you're only using the site for friendship. By adding an activity, you're immediately mentioning one of your hobbies which will be eye catching to someone with shared interests.
What is the 1 mile rule on Tinder? ›
If you set it to 1 mile, then Tinder will show you people within a 1-mile radius from where you are at that time. When you change location, then you are moving the center of the radius and will find different people.
What is the actual success rate of dating apps? ›
Dating App Success Rate
- Nearly 70% of individuals who met someone on a dating app said it led to a romantic, exclusive relationship, while 28% said it did not.
- Individuals between ages 43 and 58 found the most success with online dating, with 72% stating that meeting on a dating app led to a romantic relationship.
What is the best first response on a dating app? ›
Online Dating First Messages
Start by addressing the person by their name, and if you've got the time to read each profile carefully, mention something specific that caught your attention. This shows you've taken the time to read their profile and are genuinely interested in getting to know them.
How do you respond to a message on the dating app? ›
1 Send “Hey” back for a quick response. 2 Ask “How's it going?” for a low-stakes opener. 3 Start a conversation about her interests. 4 Ask her for an opinion.
How to answer bumble prompts? ›
Show intention. To show people that you're genuinely interested in making new connections, put care and attention into your Prompt responses. Avoid casual statements that show a lack of thought and don't be afraid to go into detail. Give potential matches a glimpse into your lifestyle and who you are!
How do I answer my simple pleasures? ›
My simple pleasures…
- A hot cup of coffee on a chilly day. ☕️
- A good yoga session after work.
- Coming home to my dog.
- A really great book.
- The unbeatable true crime podcast + power walk combo.
How do you answer what do you do for fun on dating apps? ›
Crafting authentic answers
- Be honest. ...
- Try and use the activity to highlight positive aspects and creativity within your character.
- Talk more about how the activity makes you feel rather than just the mechanics of your interests.