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Published Mar 2, 2023
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I now have twenty plus year olds living in my home. One of the things that my wife and I had to decide is whether or not to charge our boys rent or expenses or what? How do we make the responsible, but also encourage them to continue to develop themselves as people? For those of us born in the sixties, we probably all were charged some form of rent as soon as we graduated from college or got our first real job if we hadn’t moved out yet. These days, deciding whether or not to charge your child rent and how much to charge them can depend on various factors, including your family's financial situation, your child's income, their age and level of independence, and your own values and beliefs about money and responsibility. It seems as if the trend is not to charge children or not to charge them as much.
Here are some factors to consider when making this decision:
• Your family's financial situation: If you're struggling to make ends meet, but your child is working, you may need to charge the child rent. If you’re comfortable financially, charging your child rent could be a way to teach them about responsibility and help them prepare for the future, even if you don’t need the money.
• Your child's income: If your child has a steady income from a part-time job or other source, they may be better equipped to handle paying rent. However, if they're still in school or otherwise financially dependent on you, charging them rent may not be appropriate or even feasible.
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• Your child's age and level of independence: If your child is an adult and has moved back home after living on their own, charging them rent could be a way to reinforce their independence and help them transition back to living on their own. However, if your child is still a minor or heavily reliant on you for support, charging them rent may not be appropriate.
• Your values and beliefs: Ultimately, the decision to charge your child rent should align with your values and beliefs about money and responsibility. Some parents feel that charging their child rent is an important lesson in responsibility, while others feel that it's their responsibility to support their child financially. We have decided for now that to get our boys started (aged early twenties both out of school) paying something. So, we calculated an estimate of their expenses, and that’s what we charge them. The longer they stay, and become accomplished, we will probably increase their “rent.” We also have decided that as long as they are investing and saving for their future, we will be less concerned whether or not they are paying more than their expenses. This approach aligns with our values. However, I admit that we might charge more as they go, especially if we see that they are not developing as people.
If you decide to charge your child rent, the amount you charge will depend on a few factors, including your expenses and the market rate in your area. Some parents choose to charge a nominal amount, such as $50 or $100 per month, while others charge a percentage of their child's income or a flat rate that covers a portion of their expenses. Ultimately, the decision to charge your child rent should be made thoughtfully and with your child's and your own best interests in mind.
It's important to communicate openly and honestly with your child about your expectations and to work together to come up with a plan that feels fair and reasonable for everyone involved. I advise people to ease their way into the rent discussion as well as the amount charged. Unless your child suddenly gets a high earning position, a good strategy is to make sure you give them advance warning, let them know why you believe charging them rent is appropriate as well as your goals for their future. Rent shouldn’t be a penalty (there may be exceptions). Rent should be an opportunity for them to increase their awareness of being an adult.
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