Managing legal affairs for someone with dementia (2024)

A dementia diagnosis doesn't necessarily mean you're unable to make important decisions at that point in time.

But as symptoms of dementia get worse over time, you may no longer be able to make decisions about things like your finances, health or welfare. This is sometimes referred to as lacking mental capacity.

You may want to make plans now for a person you trust to make decisions on your behalf.

This means your wishes for your future care can be respected. It'll also help give your family peace of mind.

Mental capacity and the Mental Capacity Act

Mental capacity means being able to understand, remember and use information so you can make decisions about your life.

You may find you're perfectly able to make decisions over what to buy from the supermarket or what to wear, but have trouble with understanding more complex financial issues.

Another person can't decide you lack mental capacity because they think you have made a bad or strange decision.

Only a healthcare or another qualified professional can decide if mental capacity is lacking.

What is the Mental Capacity Act?

The Mental Capacity Act (MCA) is designed to protect and empower people who may lack the mental capacity to make their own decisions about their care and treatment.

Your doctor, social worker or other medical professional can help assess mental capacity.

If someone lacks capacity to make a decision, which needs to be made for them, the MCA states the decision must be in their best interests.

The MCA has a checklist to help decide what's in a person's best interests.

Find out more about the Mental Capacity Act

In order to grant power of attorney to someone to act on your behalf, make an advance decision and make a will, you must have mental capacity to do so.

This is why it's important to put plans in place as soon as possible.

Lasting power of attorney

A lasting power of attorney (LPA) is a legal document that allows you to choose a person (or people) you trust to act on your behalf if you're no longer able to make your own decisions.

This person is referred to as your attorney and must be over 18 years old.

You may think that if you're married or in a civil partnership, your spouse would automatically be able to deal with your bank accounts and pensions, or make decisions about your care if you're no longer able to.

But this isn't true. Without an LPA, your spouse wouldn't be able to act on your behalf.

An LPA can only be used after it's been registered at the Office of the Public Guardian (OPG).

There are 2 types of LPA covering:

  • property and financial affairs
  • health and welfare

You can choose to do both LPAs at the same time, or just one. You can choose the same person (or people) to be your attorney for both. Or you can have different attorneys.

Property and financial affairs LPA

A property and financial affairs LPA gives your attorney the power to make decisions about money and property for you, such as:

  • managing a bank or building society account
  • paying bills
  • collecting benefits or a pension
  • selling your home

Once the LPA is registered with the Office of the Public Guardian, it can be used with your permission, even if you're still able to deal with these things yourself.

Or it can be held in readiness for when you're no longer able to make decisions for yourself.

Health and welfare LPA

A health and welfare LPA gives your attorney the power to make decisions on your behalf about your health and welfare, such as:

  • your daily routine (washing, dressing, eating)
  • medical care
  • moving into a care home
  • life-sustaining treatment (if you have already made an advance decision about what future treatments you do not want, this may be overruled by your attorney)

Once the LPA is registered with the Office of the Public Guardian, it can only be used when you're no longer able to make your own decisions.

Enduring power of attorney (EPA)

Enduring power of attorney (EPA) was the system in place before LPAs replaced this in October 2007.

If you have an EPA, which deals only with financial and property affairs, it remains valid and can be registered and used.

How to set up and register a lasting power of attorney (LPA)

You can apply online for both types of LPA on the GOV.UK website or download the forms, along with detailed guidance on how to complete them.

You can get someone else to use the online service or fill in the forms for you, such as a family member, friend or solicitor.

The LPA forms need to be signed by someone, apart from your chosen attorney, to state that you have the mental capacity to make an LPA. The forms also need to be witnessed.

You then need to register each LPA with the Office of the Public Guardian. Either you or your attorney can do this.

Registering the LPAs takes several weeks. You'll have to pay a fee for each one, which may be reduced if you're on a low income or receiving certain benefits.

Get help with LPAs

If you need advice with LPAs, you can:

  • contact the Office of the Public Guardian on 0300 456 0300
  • talk to a solicitor, preferably one who specialises in this area, by searching the Law Society's online directory
  • consider using an advocacy service – the social services department of your local authority may be able to help with this

Or you can call:

These charities aren't able to give legal advice, but can suggest reliable sources of information.

What happens if you don't make an LPA?

If you don't make an LPA and later become unable to make decisions yourself, nobody will legally be able to make decisions for you.

This can make things difficult for your family as they won't be able to pay bills or make decisions about your care.

When this happens, someone may need to apply to the Court of Protection to become a deputy. This gives similar powers to that of an attorney. But it's a time-consuming and expensive process.

Find out more about becoming a deputy on GOV.UK

Advance statements and advance decisions

These are part of advance care planning after a dementia diagnosis. They let your family and healthcare professionals know your wishes for your future health and social care if you become unable to make decisions (lack mental capacity).

Advance statement

An advance statement is a written statement that sets down your preferences, wishes, beliefs and values regarding your future care.

You can write the statement yourself, with support if needed from relatives, carers or health and social care professionals.

It can include:

  • how you want any religious or spiritual beliefs to be reflected in your care
  • where you'd like to be cared for – for example, at home or in a care home
  • how you like to do things – for example, if you prefer a shower instead of a bath
  • music, TV or DVD preferences

An advance statement isn't legally binding, but your attorney (if you have one) and healthcare team will take it into account.

Advance decision

An advance decision (sometimes known as an advance decision to refuse treatment, or ADRT) is a written statement you can make now to refuse a specific type of treatment in the future.

It's a good idea to discuss the treatments you're deciding to refuse with your doctor or healthcare team so you fully understand the consequences.

You may want to refuse a treatment in some circ*mstances, but not others. You may also want to refuse a treatment that could potentially keep you alive, known as life-sustaining treatment.

Life-sustaining treatments include:

  • cardiopulmonary resuscitation (CPR) – may be used if your heart stops
  • ventilation – this may be used if you can't breathe by yourself
  • antibiotics – these help your body fight infection

You can't ask for anything that's against the law, such as euthanasia or help to take your own life.

If you decide to refuse life-sustaining treatments in the future, your advance decision needs to be:

  • written down
  • signed by you
  • signed by a witness

Make sure your doctor has a copy of the advance decision to include in your medical notes.

Age UK has useful information on advance decisions.

Make a will

It's a good idea to make a will if you haven't done so already.

This ensures that when you die, your money, property and possessions go to the people you choose. If you die without making a will, the state decides who'll get what.

A person with dementia can still make or change a will, provided you can show that you understand its effect.

Unless your will is very simple, it's advisable to consult a solicitor who specialises in writing wills.

The cost of a solicitor will vary – ask what the fee will be and what this includes before going ahead.

Some charities offer a free will writing service in the hope that you'll consider leaving them some money. But this is optional.

Your will must be signed and formally witnessed. It should also be kept in a safe place where others can find it, either at home or with a solicitor.

Read more about making a will on GOV.UK.

Age UK has information on making a will, and also provides a list of useful organisations.

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Managing legal affairs for someone with dementia (2024)

FAQs

What are three things not to say to someone with dementia? ›

7 things to avoid saying to somebody with dementia
  • 'Remember when...?' ...
  • 'I've just told you that' ...
  • 'Your brother died 10 years ago' ...
  • 'What did you do this morning?' ...
  • 'Do you recognise me?'

What are the three golden rules of dementia? ›

SPECAL sense begins with three Golden Rules (don't ask questions; listen to the expert; don't contradict). These basic rules apply to each and every person with dementia and will make a remarkable difference as soon as they are introduced, but they are not enough to sustain well-being for life.

How do you ensure legal protection for a loved one with dementia? ›

Guardianship/conservatorship

It involves enlisting the help of an attorney and testifying in court for guardianship proceedings. Not only does a guardian make health care and financial decisions, a guardian also makes sure the person's day-to-day needs for safety, food, shelter and care are met.

What is the average age of death for someone with dementia? ›

What are the average life expectancy figures for the most common types of dementia? The average life expectancy figures for the most common types of dementia are as follows: Alzheimer's disease – around eight to 10 years. Life expectancy is less if the person is diagnosed in their 80s or 90s.

What is looping in dementia? ›

Looping is very common in dementia care. It can involve the repeating of stories or fixations. How you approach it and/or embrace it makes a world of difference in your interaction with the individual. Allow it to happen and you can have a deeper, richer interaction with your loved one.

What is the number one trigger for dementia behavior? ›

Environment: This is the most common trigger for aggressive behavior in dementia patients.

What two personality traits are linked to dementia? ›

Neuroticism, low conscientiousness, and negative affect were associated with dementia diagnoses across samples, measures, and time. Other personality traits may be more protective; for example, conscientiousness, extraversion, and positive affect were associated with a lower risk for dementia.

Does a person with dementia know they are confused? ›

In the earlier stages, memory loss and confusion may be mild. The person with dementia may be aware of — and frustrated by — the changes taking place, such as difficulty recalling recent events, making decisions or processing what was said by others. In the later stages, memory loss becomes far more severe.

What are the 4 D's of dementia? ›

The Four Ds o en associated with mental health conditions prevalent among the elderly are: dementia, depression, delirium and delusion. Failure to di erentiate between these four conditions can have serious consequences. The incidence of depression rises with age.

What is the legal capacity for a person with dementia? ›

In most cases, if a person with dementia is able to understand the meaning and importance of a given legal document, he or she likely has the legal capacity to execute (to carry out by signing) it. As long as the person has legal capacity, he or she should take part in legal planning.

Who is responsible for a person with dementia? ›

In most cases, a conservator of a person with dementia will assume both of these responsibilities. Most often, it is a family member who takes on the responsibility of being a loved one's conservator. However, there are also agencies that can be hired to take on the role.

Which parent determines dementia? ›

We all inherit a copy of some form of APOE from each parent. Those who inherit one copy of APOE-e4 from their mother or father have an increased risk of developing Alzheimer's. Those who inherit two copies from their mother and father have an even higher risk, but not a certainty.

What do dementia eyes look like? ›

You can't tell whether someone has dementia by looking in their eyes. However, vision loss commonly occurs among people with dementia. It's not clear whether vision loss causes dementia or vice versa. It may be that both sight loss and dementia are more common among older adults.

How can you tell what stage of dementia a person is in? ›

Moderate-stage dementia symptoms include significant cognitive impairment and mood swings. Severe or late-stage dementia (stages 6 and 7). These final phases are associated with severe cognitive impairment along with a loss of physical abilities.

What makes dementia patients happy? ›

Playing music, having objects to touch and interact with, and hand massage can all help people with dementia in the later stages. Playlist for Life is a music and dementia charity. It promotes how music with personal meaning can help people with dementia. You can find and listen to existing playlists, or make your own.

What comforts a dementia patient? ›

Respect the person's personal space. Build quiet times into the day, along with activities. Keep well-loved objects and photographs around the house to help the person feel more secure. Remind the person who you are if he or she doesn't remember, but try not to say, “Don't you remember?”

What makes dementia worse? ›

other long-term health problems – dementia tends to progress more quickly if the person is living with other conditions, such as heart disease, diabetes or high blood pressure, particularly if these are not well-managed.

What is not good for dementia patients? ›

Foods to Avoid
  • Red meat.
  • Desserts, sweets and sugary beverages.
  • Refined grains.
  • Processed, fried and fast foods.
  • Alcohol.
Jan 10, 2023

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