Going on a ‘friendcation’? Nine tips to ensure you’ll still be speaking after the trip. (2024)

FAQs

How to survive a trip with friends? ›

A simple line that ignites the imagination of your mates is a great way to spark initial interest in a group trip. Set the idea and destination, and let your minds run wild planning activities! A one-liner dropped in your group chat or on a night out together will give life to the idea.

Flexibility is a key quality for a good travel buddy. Someone who can rebound from setbacks—like bad weather leading to a canceled activity—and adjust to unexpected circ*mstances will make the headaches that come with traveling easier to navigate.

Ask each friend to share a personal desire for the trip — for example, a tour of a museum or an afternoon at the beach — and assign that person to lead the group on the day of that activity. By making everyone the driver, everyone also gets the chance at some point to sit back and be a passenger.

Keep the conversation current

One way to keep the friendship current is by keeping up with each other's interests. “If you spot an article that your friend might find interesting, send a link and a comment or two,” says Yager. “Small efforts like this help your friendship grow rather than stagnate.”

How do you let go of someone and stay friends? ›

It's also important to consider your personality and travel style. If you're an introvert who values quiet time and reflection, solo travel may be the better option. On the other hand, if you thrive on the social interaction with a travel companion, then travelling with a friend may be more your style.

Bon Voyage, See You Later, or whichever way you say Goodbye, send your safe journey wishes in one of our personalised cards and let them know you're thinking about them (or you're just jealous that they're on holiday).

Keep things positive and upbeat

For bonus points, end with an upbeat line like “I'm so going to miss hanging out with you” too. The most important thing to avoid is using words and phrases like “irresponsible” or “ how could you?”.

The more you clarify ahead of time, the fewer surprises down the road. This is doubly important if you know the specific annoyance(s) your companion might pose as the trip wears on. Make it clear what you will tolerate—and what you won't.

In-flight tips

For the flight itself, you and your sister might consider creating an anxiety first-aid kit, so to speak—that may include soothing music, a fidget toy, a coloring book, whatever she finds reassuring—and have a to-go plan for when anxiety hits.