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Imagine being a 19-year-old girl, living alone for a year, and having to deal with your mom constantly borrowing money from you. That's the reality for this young woman who's been financially supporting her family since she was 15, including paying for phone bills, food, and even her sister's medicine. But when she refused to loan any more money, her mom cut her out of her life! ๐ก Now, she's considering sending an invoice to her mom and stepdad for the $550 she's still owed. Will this bold move get her the money she deserves, or just cause more drama? ๐ค๐ฅ
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Will She Get Her Money Back? ๐คทโโ๏ธ๐ฐ
This 19-year-old has been financially supporting her family for years, but when she stopped lending money, her mom cut her out of her life. ๐ข Now, she's considering sending an invoice to both her mom and stepdad for the $550 she's still owed. With her mom borrowing money from multiple sources and not paying it back, it's no wonder she's fed up! ๐ Will this bold move finally get her the money she deserves, or will it just cause more family drama? Let's see what people think about this situation...๐
NTA, but cut your losses and don't lend her money again ๐ธ
thirdtryisthecharm | thirdtryisthecharm
User advises to cut off lending money to mom and inform stepdad ๐
[deleted] | [deleted]
NTA, but not worth it to pursue repayment. ๐
goldenhourbaby | goldenhourbaby
Daughter confronts narcissistic mom for stealing her hard-earned money ๐ต
disindiantho | disindiantho
Cutting off toxic family for a better life ๐
TheFairyingForest | TheFairyingForest
Commenter gets sympathy for not getting payback from mom
xshainax | xshainax
NTA: Commenter suggests sending money directly to sister to avoid manipulation.
DutchMadness77 | DutchMadness77
NTA seeks justice for mom's debts, but family is powerless. ๐
Born_Cup_5441 | Born_Cup_5441
Commenter refuses to loan money to mom for sisters' sake. ๐
Bogglesthemind357 | Bogglesthemind357
Don't give her a cent going forward. Build a stable life ๐
plm56 | plm56
Getting justice but not the money? That's a bummer. ๐
[deleted] | [deleted]
Send the invoice to stepdad ๐. Might open his eyes ๐ to mom's behavior.
HPNerd44 | HPNerd44
Commenter defends 19-year-old against abusive mother, calls for charges. ๐
[deleted] | [deleted]
Valuable lesson learned: never loan money to family. Consider it a gift ๐
CraigBybee | CraigBybee
Cutting off family loans: NTA's tough but necessary decision. ๐ธ
cherrikokie | cherrikokie
Lesson learned: never loan money to users. ๐ธ
mousechick69 | mousechick69
Commenter sympathizes with OP and suggests telling family members. ๐
mcmurrml | mcmurrml
NTA suggests clever tactic to get owed money from mother ๐
ShaneVis | ShaneVis
NTA, commenter suggests talking to step dad for trustworthiness ๐
Expensive-Isopod8249 | Expensive-Isopod8249
NTA, but an invoice won't solve the problem ๐
CutiePopIceberg | CutiePopIceberg
Cut her off and bill her, but don't expect payment ๐ธ
Borageandthyme | Borageandthyme
Learned a hard lesson: no loans without written agreement ๐ธ
boiledpenny | boiledpenny
Lesson learned: Don't loan money over and over again ๐ต
WittyButter217 | WittyButter217
User empathizes with OP and asks about their dad. ๐จโ๐ป
AKA_June_Monroe | AKA_June_Monroe
Letting go of debt: the key to moving forward ๐
QuirkySyrup55947 | QuirkySyrup55947
Learn from this cautionary tale: never lend to friends/family! ๐ซ
Suspicious_Tax_8856 | Suspicious_Tax_8856
Justice served? NTA seeks payback and legal action. ๐ช
Last_Caterpillar8770 | Last_Caterpillar8770
Commenter defends 19-year-old's actions in debt dispute. ๐ช
[deleted] | [deleted]
NTA, but $$$ recovery unlikely. ๐๐ธ
RainCityMomWriter | RainCityMomWriter
Lesson learned: Never lend family money, especially not mom. ๐
DowncastOlympus | DowncastOlympus
Parenting roles reversed: 19-year-old demands payback for mom's debts. NTA.
BryLac | BryLac
Legal action may be necessary for payback. NTA. ๐ธ
MrsGruusahm | MrsGruusahm
Don't waste time chasing the loan, consider it rent instead ๐ถ
moribundbunny | moribundbunny
Taking a stand against a toxic family dynamic. ๐ช
DeathBecomesHerrrrrr | DeathBecomesHerrrrrr
Public go-fund-me for sisters' medicine and let everyone know! ๐ฐ
TurbulentDrawing6 | TurbulentDrawing6
Cutting losses: NTA advises against lending money to family ๐ธ
Sure_Tree_5042 | Sure_Tree_5042
Avoiding toxic family members: NTA but not worth the effort ๐
Affectionate-Pay2195 | Affectionate-Pay2195
Expose her to family and cut her off. NTA ๐
ghettoblaster78 | ghettoblaster78
NTA demands payback from abusive mom, seeks justice in court ๐ต
[deleted] | [deleted]
Hold her accountable, but don't sink to her level. ๐ฐ
[deleted] | [deleted]
NTA commenter advises seeking counseling and warning family members. ๐
thinkalotanonsense | thinkalotanonsense
NTA. Demand repayment, but don't expect it. Lesson learned. Move on. ๐
judarltx | judarltx
Band together with other victims to stop her scamming ๐
moonspiderxx | moonspiderxx
Commenter advises 19-year-old to prioritize therapy over payback. ๐
[deleted] | [deleted]
Letting go of debt: NTA comment suggests it's not worth it. ๐
firemen432 | firemen432
Commenter sympathizes with OP and advises against lending more money.
Winstonisapuppy | Winstonisapuppy
Family debts and valuable lessons. Share your experiences below! ๐
Sufficient_Oil_1756 | Sufficient_Oil_1756
Commenter empathizes with OP and advises to move on. ๐
EvidenceRemote1425 | EvidenceRemote1425
Advice to move on and not lend more, not worth it ๐ซ
El_Silksterro | El_Silksterro
Encouraging comment about seeking therapy after financial abuse by mother.
OkPhilosopher1313 | OkPhilosopher1313
Commenter sympathizes with OP and calls out OP's mother.
Life-Tutor-5165 | Life-Tutor-5165
Don't lend money to family unless you can afford to gift ๐ต
FinanceFiend2020 | FinanceFiend2020
Commenter expresses concern for siblings' well-being and receives reassuring reply ๐
Wise-Caterpillar8301 | Wise-Caterpillar8301
Commenter suggests cutting losses, advice not taken seriously. ๐ค
Responsible_Candle86 | Responsible_Candle86
NTA seeks payback from mom's debts and considers small claims court. ๐ค
Ketamine-pigeon | Ketamine-pigeon
Commenter supports OP but warns against expecting repayment. ๐
HarliquinJane54 | HarliquinJane54
Realistic advice on lending money to family members ๐
charlybell | charlybell
Fight for your money! Small claims court is your best bet ๐ช
Ok_Imagination7913 | Ok_Imagination7913
NTA demands payback, but commenters advise no contact for resolution. ๐
ribbonsofgreen | ribbonsofgreen
Empathetic comment acknowledges financial abuse by mother. ๐
PsilosirenRose | PsilosirenRose
Exploitation of a minor: commenter supports OP's actions. ๐
CutEmOff666 | CutEmOff666
Commenter advises cutting off financial support to daughter ๐ฐ
PlaneTurbulent4825 | PlaneTurbulent4825
NTA and should notify family. $550 to get her out ๐ธ
OffMyRocker2016 | OffMyRocker2016
Don't let debt ruin your mental health. Stay LC/NC. ๐
Red_Carrot | Red_Carrot
Supportive advice for standing up to mom and stepdad. ๐
Living_Life1962 | Living_Life1962
Set boundaries and warn others, but don't expect repayment ๐ธ
[deleted] | [deleted]
Protect your money and pay bills directly. NTA for trying.
Which-Month-3907 | Which-Month-3907
Adult child demands payback from mom: NTA or entitlement? ๐ค
Damn_bibiii | Damn_bibiii
Family secrets and debts: Should she tell her bio dad?
Augustus87_hc | Augustus87_hc
NTA demands payback from mom for illegal actions. Get your money ๐ธ
Sweet-Interview5620 | Sweet-Interview5620
Commenter defends 19-year-old's demand for payback with NTA verdict.
Ok-Number-5658 | Ok-Number-5658
Commenter supports OP suing their mother for her debts. ๐
DerpyMcDerpington17 | DerpyMcDerpington17
Cut ties and learn a cheap lesson. NTA. Good luck! ๐
Public_Document_1602 | Public_Document_1602
Take control of your life, never loan family money again ๐ช
dashingirish | dashingirish
Protecting siblings from mom's debts, NTA for asking payback. ๐
MightyThorg*sm | MightyThorg*sm
Daughter rightfully demands payback from selfish mother. ๐ฏ
manouna-theo | manouna-theo
Stand up against financial abuse. NTA, but good luck ๐ช
MCDexX | MCDexX
Don't fall for it. If you get your money, great. ๐
junebug6997 | junebug6997
Heartwarming support for daughter demanding payback from her mother โค๏ธ
Fluid_Cat_282 | Fluid_Cat_282
Empathetic comment supports sending the check to negligent parents. ๐
fabfusion2000 | fabfusion2000
Posting on entitledparents, NTA refuses to pay mom's debts.
ravenitrius | ravenitrius